Andrew Folkler

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Reconnect after parental alienation.

As a formerly alienated child, I help parents learn more about what their alienated children are thinking so they can better reconnect.

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Broken Families Podcast (S1)

As an alienated parent, you get caught in a huge tidal wave of challenges — struggling with finances, an ugly divorce, and anxiety. And the worst part is your own kids won’t even look you in the eyes. That is why I cohosted the Broken Families Podcast with Barbara La Pointe, to help you avoid major pitfalls as you navigate divorce, reconnecting with your children, and rebuilding your life. I left the podcast in Barbara’s very capable hands after Season 1 for professional reasons, and it has since been rebranded to The Healing Broken Families Podcast.

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Shortening the Red Thread

A monthly newsletter to help you reunite with your alienated loved ones. Every month, I share powerful tips and techniques to help you better understand what is going on in the mind of an alienated child and how you can take action to bridge that gap. Rather than be overwhelmed with the science and politics of alienation, I get straight to how you can reclaim your power and take action today. Subscribing is completely free, and you can view all previous editions.

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Frequently asked questions

As an alienated parent, it is not uncommon to have a million questions. Here are some of the ones I get asked most, and I hope these answers help you get the guidance you need to reconnect with your alienated children.

Do you offer coaching?
I do not offer coaching, as I work full time as a writer. I choose not to be a coach because finances tend to be tight for many alienated parents, and I do not wish to create barriers between you and your children.
How do I reconnect with my alienated child?
Reconnecting with your children is a long process that involves a great deal of time and energy from you as a parent. There is no one way to reconnect, and often you will feel like nothing you are doing is working. To reconnect, you will need to ensure you are strong financially, emotionally, physically, and psychologically. Afterwards, you will need to separate the child from the source of alienation.
How do I get my child to talk to me?
Your child will believe horrible lies about you. To reconnect, you need to open spaces for the child to slowly discover who you truly are. This means avoiding sensitive topics and engaging in small interactions with your child. Over time, you can deepen the conversation until your child is emotionally ready to talk to you.

Recent parental alienation articles

Identity Crisis Within the Alienated Child

February 14, 2024

Parents are often confused about why their alienated children are aggressive toward them, even when they have been warm and welcoming. This article dives into the mindset of the alienated child.

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#Erased: My Review on the Documentary Erasing Family

November 8, 2021

As a formerly alienated child, I am often asked for my opinions on parental alienation. In this article, I share my thoughts on the documentary Erasing Family.

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Why Don’t Alienated Children Speak Out

November 8, 2021

Alienated parents often ask me why alienated children who have reconnected with their parents avoid going public. In this article, I share what is holding them back from speaking out.

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Invite Andrew as a guest speaker

If you are hosting a podcast, radio show, or virtual conference, I’d be glad to join. As a former alienated child, I have been on both sides of parental alienation. I have spoken at numerous events and platforms, sharing my story, offering unique insight into the mind of an alienated child, and supporting parents who are currently enduring this ordeal.

Disclaimer: I am not a licensed coach, attorney, or mental health professional. Everything I share is from my own experience. For legal matters, please consult an attorney; for mental health matters, please consult a licensed therapist.